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Death and Dying

 

A Breath Away
Daughters Remember Mothers Lost to Smoking
By Anne Wainscott-Sargent

A cook. A speech therapist. A credit union executive. A fashion model-turned-cancer activist. A secretary. A homemaker — all were mothers. Nineteen lives cut short — women from all walks of life, hailing from every corner of the United States and a province in Canada. Some were homemakers with little or no formal education; others were career women with college degrees and accomplished resumes. Regardless of their backgrounds, all these women share one thing in common: an addiction to smoking that culminated in an array of illnesses and their untimely demise. Their stories, told by their surviving daughters, pay tribute to the mothers they lost, often at pivotal moments in the daughters' lives, and the legacy they continue to live with every day. A Breath Away offers a powerful anti-smoking message that goes beyond the statistics to today's generation of girls and young women, to think twice before lighting up.
  • Item# 2493
  • 226 pp., softcover, 0-9762224-9-3
  • $16.95

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  Caring For The Dead
Your Final Act of Love
By Lisa Carlson, Upper Access, Inc.

A complete guide for those making funeral arrangements with or without a funeral director. Families, friends, and support groups who want to say goodbye in a meaningful way—not just write a big check to a funeral director—will find detailed and practical legal information in this unique guide. By taking an active role in funeral and memorial arrangements, families can save thousands of dollars while better serving the emotional needs of loved ones. Caring for The Dead gives the legal requirements of each state, how to obtain and file permits and death certificates, explanations of cremation and embalming, burial procedures, and other necessary information. Readers learn how to shop for the best services at the most reasonable prices, while avoiding fraudulent and deceptive mortuary practices. This landmark book helps readers take control of one of life's most intimate experiences—the final act of love for a friend or relative.
  • Item# 226*1
  • 640 pp., softcover
  • $29.95

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The Classroom is Bare...The Teacher's Not there
By Martha Karlovetz

"The Classroom is Bare" is the story of Linda Favero -- a masterful, gifted teacher and her struggle with brain cancer. Inspired by her courage, her concern for others and her love of life, Linda's students, school community, and family rallied around her throughout the ordeal. Written by Linda's mother, Martha Karlovetz, this is a story about teachers and the impact they have on their students' lives. It is also one of the few books ever written by a parent that deals with the death of her adult child.

Martha Karlovetz was president of the Missouri National Education Association and president of the National Council of State Education Associations. She was a Commissioner to the Education Commission of the States and served on the Board of Trustees for The Children's Trust Fund. A graduate of Washington University, she received her Masters in Education from the University of Missouri. In 1995 Martha was listed in the National Teachers Hall of Fame. Teacher, public servant, writer, publisher, spokesperson, political activist, wife, mother, and grandmother C Martha Karlovetz has always been in the vanguard of American education.
  • Item# ZZ1902
  • 248 pgs., softcover, 0-9741119-0-2
  • $15.95
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Dealing Creatively with Death  
A Manual of Death Education and Simple Burial
By Ernest Morgan, Upper Access Books, 14th Edition

This book is a small encyclopedia on death-related problems; social, emotional, philosophical and practical.  It is written simply and sensitively, drawing substantially of direct experience.  Thoroughly updated from previous editions, it includes the information covering death education, living with dying, bereavement, the right to die, simple burial and cremation, funeral consumer organizations, death ceremonies and how the dead can help the living.

14th Edition, Revised and Updated, Over 300,000 copies sold in previous editions.

  • Item# 9245
  • 160 pp., softcover, 0-942679-24-5
  • $14.95
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Death Notification
A Practical Guide to the Process
By R. Moroni Leash, Upper Access Inc.

If it is your job to notify a family that a death has occurred—or is soon expected—how do you do it right? Using vivid examples, Leash guides the reader through this difficult task in a wide variety of situations. His research and personal experience will help you to meet the family's needs in a constructive, helpful way - and to avoid the all-too-common mistakes that can compound the tragedy. Important reading for physicians, nurses, emergency personnel, clergy, law enforcement, military, and social workers.

  • Item# 226-D
  • 277 pp., softcover
  • $19.95

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The Ethics of Caring
Honoring the Web of Life in the Professional Caring Relationship
By Kylea Taylor, Hanford Mead Publishers
Foreword by Jack Kornfield

Provides unique help to volunteer and professional caregivers who want to sort out confusing and ethical dilemmas in seven categories, including love, truth, insight, and oneness, as well as the more well-known ethical issues of money, sex, and power. Powerful shared experiences in the context of therapeutic relationships can bring to the surface compelling fears, needs, and longings in both the client and the therapist, minister, massage practitioner, or hospice worker. Rather than imposing another set of external rules, this book provides a new model emphasizing self-awareness.

  • Item# 716-1
  • 261 pp., softcover
  • $20.95

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The Final Crossing
Learning to Die in Order to Live
By Scott Eberle

The Final Crossing: Learning to Die in Order to Live tells the story of the final days and “the final crossing” of Steven Foster, one-time English professor, naturalist and author. The story is told by Foster's hospice physician, Scott Eberle, a man who has been doing end-of-life work for nearly two decades.

Steven Foster was influential in bringing wilderness rites of passage back into the modern world, a practice commonly called “the vision quest.” Having spent decades studying the “death and rebirth” that is contained within any rite of passage, Foster entered his final days with uncommon openness and curiosity about physical death.

The book borrows from an old Mayan teaching that maps out the psycho-spiritual challenges that are faced by anyone who is dying—be it a symbolic dying in the middle of life, or a physical dying at the end of life. With this map as his guide, Eberle weaves the intimate story of Foster's final days with an historical account of how people are relearning the lost “art of dying,” which is also the “the art of living.”

As an old medieval prayer says, “To be blessed in death, one must learn to live. To be blessed in life, one must learn to die.”
  • Item# 3218F
  • 187 pp., softcover, 978-0-9777632-1-4, 0-9777632-1-8
  • $19.95

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  I Died Laughing
Funeral Education with a Light Touch
By Lisa Carlson

Death doesn't have to be a very serious event.  This book takes a look at the funny side of death.  Loaded with jokes, puns, wit, cartoons and quotes from famous people.  But mixed in between the laughs is some important information helpful to all of us.

  • Item# 9253
  • 96 pgs., softcover, 0-942679-25-3
  • $8.75
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I'll Be In The Car
One Woman's Story of Love, Loss and Reclaiming Life
By Annette Januzzi Wick

Finding Life—After Life As You Know It Ends

What happens when all you wanted becomes yours and then, like the receding tide, begins to slip away?

That's the question Annette Wick was forced to answer when her young husband was diagnosed with a terminal illness. What would become of their idyllic marriage? Their infant son? Her dream home on the Oregon coast?

This inspiring story traces Annette's brave adventure into the dark valley of despair and back again to the warm sunshine of hope. Told in the voice of a poet, I'll Be in the Car is, ultimately, a story of joy and triumph.

Take this journey and discover for yourself that when life as you know it ends, there's still an abundance of life to be lived.

This title is due to be published July 2006.  You may place an advance order.  Your credit card will not be charged until we ship the book to you.

  • Item# 5609
  • 408 pp., softcover, 0-9774856-0-9
  • $23.95

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Plan While You Still Can
16 End-of-Life Checklists You Need Now
By Donald M. Burrows

The emotional and physical strain of dying, as well as dealing with hundreds of vital details large and small, can be overwhelming for all involved. Plan While You Still Can won't take away your pain, but it will lessen the stress and confusion, maintain stability in your relationships, and provide comfort and support every step of the way.

  • Item# 27900
  • 190 pgs., softcover,
  • 9781890427900
  • $14.95

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Remembering
The Death Of A Child
By Robert R. Thompson, M.D.

"When my daughter, Kim, died my world was one of confusion and pain. Neither family nor friends could reach me...."

In the first part of the book, Dr. Thompson relates the story of the tragic loss of his son. His experience as a father, husband and physician allows us unique insight.

The second part of the book offers not only hope but also clinical advice to the bereaved parent along their path to emotional and spiritual healing."

This is a book for families who have lost children of any age or gender and who are looking for means of coping with this tragedy.

  • Item# 4201R
  • 112 pp., softcover, 0-9722942-0-1
  • $12.95
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Signs of Life
A Memoir of Dying and Discovery
By Tim Brookes, Upper Access Inc.

Brookes, best-known as a commentator on National Public Radio, researched issues involving death and hospice care at a time when his efforts were intertwined with care for his dying mother. The resulting book has become a classic on death and dying—practical considerations as well as the search for meaning in life and death. Published in hardcover by a big press, Signs of Life has been brought back in a quality softcover edition by Upper Access.

"Brookes has the sensitivity, as well as the sense of consistency with his own ideals, not to deduce any lesson about death and dying; pamphlets do that. Instead he allows us to touch the thing itself. The ending he gives his story is moving, intelligent, and unlike anything else in this literature. To reach it other than through the text is to trivialize it, and I hope others will make the journey."
Arthur W. Frank, Hastings Center Report

"Brookes's honest appraisal of hospice care brings much-needed balance to the debate over care of they dying. Highly recommended."
Library Journal

"A haunting account . . . . Brookes brings his mother's strong, independent spirit to life and vividly describes how dealing with her impending death brought problems as well as renewed intimacy."
Publishers Weekly

"An informative and moving account of hospice care—a vivid personal memoir incorporating the search for meaning of both death and life."
Madalon Amenta, executive director, Hospice Nurses Association

  • Item# 226-S
  • 270 pp., softcover
  • $18.95

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Surviving the Holidays and Other Significant Events After a Loved One's Death
By Mary M. Wong

Holidays and other significant events, after someone close has died, can bring increased anxiety and stress and survivors are often uncertain how best to hand specific situations. Do I keep the same traditions or create new ones? What can I expect on the anniversary of my loved one's death? How do I handle that wedding invitation when I feel so badly? These are just some of the topics discussed within this audiotape in addition to Christmas invitations, decorations, shopping, gift giving, meals, etc. She also provides practical, effective alternatives to current traditions in an effort to provoke your thinking to reach more appealing solutions. She discusses how to effectively handle New Year's, their birthday, the anniversary of their death, weddings, graduations, the birth of a new baby into the family and much more. If you are feeling anxious about any of these upcoming events, this tape is for you.

About the Author:
For nearly two decades, Mary M. Wong has counseled bereaved individuals and groups, primarily survivors of homicide victims, to better understand the grieving process and how they could gain more control during overwhelming circumstances.  She is editor of the award-winning National Directory of Bereavement Support Groups and Services, and author of other works in this field.  Visit her Web site at www.marywong.com

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  • Item# 0836
  • 90 minute 2 Audio CD Set, 0-9645608-3-6
  • $19.95
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Understanding Your Grieving Heart After a Loved One's Death
By Mary M. Wong

Many books touch upon the subject of grief, but none so comprehensively as Understanding Your Grieving Heart.  Whether you've experienced the loss of a loved one last week or many years ago, you'll find solace and comfort within these pages.  Mary M. Wong's conversational writing style, coupled with her own personal experience, makes Understanding Your Grieving Heart an invaluable resource that you will turn to time and time again on your road to stability and healing.

Inside you will learn:

  • The myths surrounding the grieving process
  • The emotional, physical, spiritual, social, intellectual and financial challenges of grief
  • How to deal with anger, fear, stress, loneliness, regrets and depression
  • How to handle your loved one's belongings
  • How grief affects your marriage
  • How to help children through the grieving process
  • How to balance the needs of your family, friends and business colleagues with your own needs
  • What to do for yourself when the holidays, birthdays and anniversaries come around
  • How to honor your loved one's memory

Additionally, you will find a list of the national bereavement organizations and over 175 books on the grieving process, all reviewed by the author and categories by need.

Learning more now about what you may encounter in the future will help alleviate unnecessary pain.  Take this bold step to learn practical ways to help yourself through this difficult time.  Begin this journey here.

Remembering the family and friends of those who perished on September 11, 2001

About the Author:
For nearly two decades, Mary M. Wong has counseled bereaved individuals and groups, primarily survivors of homicide victims, to better understand the grieving process and how they could gain more control during overwhelming circumstances.  She is editor of the award-winning National Directory of Bereavement Support Groups and Services, and author of other works in this field.  Visit her Web site at www.marywong.com

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  • Item# 0844
  • 128 pgs., softcover, 0-9645608-4-4
  • $12.95
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What To Do Before & After Someone Dies
by Judith Lee

Judy Lee is the authority on the pressing decisions people need to make at the worst possible time: when a friend or loved one is dying or has just died. Fortunately, this is not a situation most people will encounter often. That's what makes it so challenging…we don't handle these things frequently enough to get good at it.
Creating a step-by-step approach, this book guides you through the process, explaining what you need to know so you can prepare in advance for each action that may be called for.
The book tells us . . .
How to be a caregiver for a dying person
How to visit a dying person
How to help a caregiver
How to best handle final arrangements—what are the choices?
Wtat products and services cost
What to say or write to survivors
This is a valuable reference for everyone who is a caregiver or has family or friends for whom they will become responsible.

  • Item# 22781
  • 224 pgs., softcover
  • 9780972022781
  • 0792022783
  • $14.95

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